When husbands or fathers face the possibility of a divorce, they often face this scenario with a bit of a defeatist attitude because they assume that they have no chance at emerging victorious.
When fathers face the possibility of having to fight for custody of their children, many of them only begrudgingly do so because they assume that they have no chance for success based on a perceived advantage that is held by the mothers in these situations.
Begin early; decide a career path for yourself only after determining the strengths, you goals, and the kind of course that suits your aptitude. The key thinking, then, is: think about your strengths, about where you want to go, about what style of course suits you best and start to plan your career trajectory early